I think this experience actually means you’re a cut above your never-been-married friends. Hell, even George Clooney couldn’t make his first marriage work.3.
You know it’s better to be alone for the right reasons than with someone for the wrong.
That she, too, had failed to make it work, and men would recoil from her in disgust, running for the nearest 20-something as soon as possible. That’s an attractive trait to men looking for a worthy partner.2. You took a swing at love, rather than just playing it safe on the sidelines.
But I for one, think being divorced can actually be a stamp of awesomeness to we men willing to look past the stigma. You placed a bet in the lottery of life, and while it didn’t work out, you can dust yourself up and try again.
There is also the issue of having to arrange dates and stay-overs around a schedule of babysitting and custody.
Things are not as fluid as they would be if one were seeing a single woman without such attachments.
According to Terri Sloane, a divorce and dating coach, dating too early after the divorce can be a problem, because the woman is still nursing unhealed wounds which need attention before they turn into bitterness, anger and damaged emotions.
This can result in the build-up of tension and discomfort.
Latoya Newman is a novelist who wrote and published her first novel in 2012.
She has a background in education, research and counseling.
She taught at the elementary level for eight years, and has a Bachelor of Arts in psychology from York University in Toronto, Canada.
Your married friend may be well intentioned, but he doesn't know what he is talking about. Your friend is telling you that if she is not a virgin, you should keep looking. Wedding ceremonies are cherished memories, not grounds for PTSD. Besides, you will most likely have children together as well so your family will grow in love rather than the reverse.
In fact, forget your friend said anything so regrettable and untrue.